Several years ago, I was invited to appear in the highly acclaimed 2011 documentary, "Consider the Conversation: a documentary on a taboo subject." I highly recommend this film for it's unabashed, in-depth view on personal care during the last days, weeks, or months of life.
If you have questions about hospice, the time to call is now. The number one comment on hospice family satisfaction surveys is, "I wish I had known about hospice sooner." See the attached list of questions to assist you when interviewing hospices.